Author: Dunrie

  • uninescapable – the uncertainty cost of subcontracting

    Stumbling on Happiness

    So, my most excellent friend Chris has loaned me his copy of Stumbling on Happiness. It is giving me interesting things to think about including this:

    According to the author, there is something called an “inescapability trigger” that brings our “psychological immune system” of denial, looking to the bright side, and generally improving our experience of negative things.

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  • Host 4 Me?

    So, we got a phone call several weeks ago, asking whether we’d consider showing our home on the Ann Arbor Old West Side (OWS) Annual Homes Tour. We agreed.

    After a brief rush mixing panic and euphoria, I now have about 12,000 little projects I want to do before the tour (Sunday, September 17). Repaint study, fix paint problem in bath, reupholster living room chair, revisit some of my garden work, repaint porch, refurbish front door exterior frame…..

    One of my jobs is to find “hosts” who would be willing to act as kind of pseudo-docents on the day of the tour. There would be 2 shifts

    • noon – 2:30 PM, or
    • 2:30-5 PM

    These hosts would hang out in our house for a shift during the tour, answering questions, directing traffic, and watching over things. In addition to the adulation and respect of many 10s of happy tour-goers, and in addition to our gratitude, hosts get a free ticket to the tour and will not have to wait in line at any of the other homes (hosts can go in through the back door of the other homes).

    If you’d consider doing this, let me know. We’d need ~10 people total (!).

  • Flygirl

    I flew!

    (briefly, supervised by husband’s flight instructor)

    (I think I’m still high)

  • IM/Chat Standup

    My goals for standup are:

    • actually communicate
    • get remote folks more familiar with each other (make Chicago and Berlin friends ;))
    • provide a forum so that I can act less as a clearinghouse/sole gate for communicating with remote folks (though I realize this is much of my job and will continue to be a big part)

    We’ve moved to IM/chat standup as a test to solve the fact that remote folks have a very hard time hearing us quiet folks at HQ.

    So far, the two standup addicts (me and talltom) are very chatty and slow, and the two IM pros are quick and to the point. I like the quickness, and to that end will try to type up a quick summary first and paste it in, but I miss something from the less efficient exchange of additional info and personality, so I think I’m going to continue to prattle a bit and encourage others to be a little less efficient if they are so moved.

    Essentially, I think standup is a bit more than a task list–it is some kind of weird vehicle for team. Not only do we get a sense of what the larger group is doing on a task level, but at its best we get a glimmer for how individuals are doing at it. I miss some of the additional information exchange that happens when people go off topic or make a joke. But, I’ve been one of the people “in the room” for the conference call standups, so perhaps IM standup is actually a higher-bandwidth channel for the remote folks….

    At a minimum, at least we’ve coined some new web acronyms: lbcot (let’s be careful out there-thanks to Stephen).

  • Virtual Stand-up: Extending the Circle

    So, a “stand-up” meeting is a communication ritual from Extreme Programming (XP). The developers were sick of long, boring meetings wasting all their time, so someone came up with the idea of ritualizing a quick and productive status meeting. Stand-up has to be short because no one is allowed to sit down.

    I believe in stand-up, it works. While I have perpetuated the stand-up ritual in my new job, extending it to a mixed group of physically present and physically remote folks is challenging. It is harder when some have never participated in a stand-up “in person”. Still, the benefit of this quick check-in with (and I hope for) the remote folks outweighs the awkwardness.

    Here are some general ground rules:

    • Stand-up happens at the appointed time with whomever is present. Currently ours happens at 10:30 AM, Eastern
    • Everyone stands
    • Participants pass a token: only the person holding the token speaks
    • The token-holder(s) should update the team on what has been accomplished since the last stand up, and what is coming this day. In a big or unfamiliar group, the token-holder starts with their own name, “Hi, I’m Joe, and today…” or in a paired environment, “Hi, I’m Joe,” “and I’m Susan, and we’re…
    • The token-holder can ask the group for help to solve a problem, though things are solved off-line after stand-up with the appropriate folks
    • Stand-up should be called by an inanimate object rather than a person
    • The person at the end has to say “let’s be careful out there” or some variant on that phrase to close the meeting

    Here are some ideas for making stand-ups happen with remote team members

    • Tokens need to be passed “virtually” to and back from conference call participants, with the order called out
    • Remote team members should be responsible for getting their own inanimate objects to remind them (alarm in calendar)

    Rules of thumb for part-time team members

    • Part time folks should attend stand-ups part of the time.

    I’m curious what others who have tried this think needs to be added to our ritual or to this description.

  • I made this, I am so proud

    Theo eats RobotMy nephew seems to be enjoying the robot I knitted for him….